broken heart

[Hermione]

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[LeahDear]

At least it wasn't your heart that was broken.. that would be worse

[Zeismyhero]

If you were honest, then you are living your truth.

Not many people can say they are doing that.

You have freed him to go out there and eventually love someone who can truly love him back.

And you have freed yourself to find someone more compatible to you.

You did the right thing for both of you.

[dinzdale]

Would you like some M & M's ?

[lapietra]

I'm with ZIMH - you freed each other up to find someone even better for both of you - he'll understand someday, and be grateful.
You done the right 'ting, toots. :cool:

In the meantime, avoid these movies:

When Harry Met Sally
Any movie with the word "Chocolate" in it, in any language
Most movies made before 1950

I recommend things like:
Any movie with Schwarzenegger in it
the "Rocky" films
the "Alien" films
Aw heck - just rent a bunch of violent sci-fi crap & you'll be okay. ;)

[rmr]

i'm sorry to say but the only thing that heals a broken heart is time and well maybe a great one night stand (just kidding).

feel better.

[zenbabe]

^^^^^^^ that going on a complete bender.

[Avalon]

Awww Surbhi, I am sorry honey.
As much as it hurts to have our own hearts broken, it is painful to realize that we, ourselves, have that power over someone else's heart. You were honest and that is what matters most. I hope you're feeling better now..atleast a little.

[bealeblues]

ordinarily i would agree with zennie on hitting a bender, but now that i'm finally out of my 4 year continuous bender, i'll just agree with rims.

[Hermione]

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[Brynn]

Picture yourself thirty years from now, still with him and wondering how things might have gone if you'd only had the courage to do what you actually did now.
Hang in there!

[madasacutsnake]

He says he can't talk or see me because it hurts too much. His worst fear was that I would leave him and move on.

He says he hates the guy I will eventually end up with. He told me yesterday that he'll watch as another guy has the life that he was supposed to have with me.


Yes, yes. they will say all of these things and probably mean it at the time too. But time will pass and he will find some-one else more suited to him, he'll find a new worst fear, and he will be happy. He won't listen if you tell him any of this now but be comforted by the idea that what he is going through is temporary.

[Jack Flanders]

...and you will love again and one of those times, you'll find the love of your life - corny but true. Keep busy and hang out with friends.

[priceyfatprude]

i'm sorry to say but the only thing that heals a broken heart is time and well maybe a great one night stand (just kidding).

feel better.She is right & she is not kidding. ;)

Seriously,

*hugs*

-Peef

[Sunnybunny]

I'm with RMR and PFP. The only thing I can add is, be around people who love you as often as you can. When you have talked and thought out all the details of your breakup, it's good to take your mind off your hurt by paying some attention to things that make you happy (in my case, my friends and their kids). It stops you from dwelling. When I broke up with my fiance', they saved me from going crazy.

Keep busy!

I'll say a little prayer for your achy-breaky-heart. :)

[trisherina]

I didn't want to break up. I'm still in love with him. It's hard because I didn't want to do this.. I still want to be with him but I know that it can't happen right now.


I've never had this happen. It sounds very difficult. I'm sorry you can't be together. :(

[12"razormix]

I still want to be with him but I know that it can't happen right now.
i'm curious.... why can't it happen now?

[nycwriters]

I hate to see you hurting. You were (are) one of my most favourite people in the world.

Chin up though. Your heart told you what to do, now have the courage of your convictions.

[bealeblues]

he won't tell you now, but you did him a favor by telling him.

now do him another favor by not waffling on what you've said- that will only fvck with his head

press on.

[Brynn]

could not agree more emphatically.
everything's going to be okay. you'll see. honest.

[Frieda]

big hug for you, surbs.. hang in there!

[Jersey]

I feel like I'm loosing my mind, I have been having dreams of my first love the one man I ever loved completely and the man who seems to own a piece of me and I cant get it back no matter how I may try, I met him very young at 15 and it lasted 9 years on and off he was not perfect and he broke my heart to pieces many times, but now after my life has gone on with nothing of him in it I woke up today after not seeing him for about 5 years and feel like I must see him I must know where he is what he is doing I feel compelled but don't want to contact him and cause any waves if he has gone on and got married or something its eating me up inside:(

[Brynn]

Let me get this straight - he's the reason you can't love anybody completely now, since he broke your heart, right? And you want him back to break your heart again? I'm confused :confused:

[priceyfatprude]

I feel like I'm loosing my mind, I have been having dreams of my first love the one man I ever loved completely and the man who seems to own a piece of me and I cant get it back no matter how I may try, I met him very young at 15 and it lasted 9 years on and off he was not perfect and he broke my heart to pieces many times, but now after my life has gone on with nothing of him in it I woke up today after not seeing him for about 5 years and feel like I must see him I must know where he is what he is doing I feel compelled but don't want to contact him and cause any waves if he has gone on and got married or something its eating me up inside:(That was one hell of a run on sentence.

Let's see if this person posts again.

[Hyakujo's Fox]

maybe one of those drive-by confessions

[Coffee]

That was one hell of a run on sentence.

He broke her heart and her punctuation.

[Jack Flanders]

period.

[craig johnston]

where is surbhi these days?

:confused: