dutch males are the same. i've been dating this guy for over 6 months, i used to spend almost all my weekends there. the last few months, he was always cancelling dates. "oh, i'm so sorry, but i already had an appointment with my sister/brother/parents/etc, i totally forgot".
haven't called him in 2 weeks. he has called me once, sent me 3 emails and has sent me a sms message on my cell. haven't replied to those, and i'm not going to either.
it's hard, but i'm probably going to feel better in a few months. you'll feel better too! have some fun with your real friends, with people that give you the feeling that you are worth it. people who do appreciate you! trust me, you'll feel better in a bit!