Originally Posted by surbhi
He says he can't talk or see me because it hurts too much. His worst fear was that I would leave him and move on.
He says he hates the guy I will eventually end up with. He told me yesterday that he'll watch as another guy has the life that he was supposed to have with me.
Yes, yes. they will say all of these things and probably mean it at the time too. But time will pass and he will find some-one else more suited to him, he'll find a new worst fear, and he will be happy. He won't listen if you tell him any of this now but be comforted by the idea that what he is going through is temporary.