let me add to that
thought attracts thought. thinking about one of my coworkers to be happy will attract thoughts from that particular coworker. i will notice this. it's annoying if you already have the feeling that you're being stalked.
best thing with this kind of situation is either to go vulcan and suppress or to repel for as long as you can manage, and if the time is right, run like hell.
i'm a freak magnet, i attract weird people. also disturbed people. i don't take the risk anymore, it's gone seriously bad before and i will not let that happen again.
zoek waar je wil, maar het zit in jezelf