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it also depends on how those types of feelings are dealt with
feelings of neediness or insecurity can bring about unity if the insecure one goes to the secure one with the issue and the secure one is understanding and such (excuse the corny sounding talk)
however, if moderate to extreme security/insecurity is dealt w/in a manner that's destructive to the relationship it's obviously gonna be bad
just a matter of selfishness/ego levels, it seems
point being that inequal levels of power are only a problem with people who deeply care about their power level (i.e. a person with a fat ego in regards to the opposite sex, or a person who likes to be always dominant/submissive)
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