against the wind

[Audreyvgs]

Ya know, JT, that might be askin a lot of another human being.

[zenbabe]

The thing is, it's not something that you have to ask for....it just is.

[JesusTitties]

huh. this thread went to three pages while i was at work.
huh.


anywho.
maybe sometimes someone just wants their significant other to be able, after a certain amount of time has passed in the relationship, to not have to put the effort into figuring out whats wrong or how he or she likes it.
no matter what 'it' is.

id like to think that soulmates are best friends. i also know that the odds of someone finding their soul mate is about 1/100, but its nice to be optimistic.
on a separate note - its odd with me, i dont just kiss anyone. Its a sacred thing to me. I know that im really into someone if i kiss them a lot.

[madasacutsnake]

My friends in Boston all think I'm swell. This is because I show up after supper, carry in my own bags without ado, make pleasant conversation, get up early each morning with a smiling inquiry of "How can I be of help today?", accept all the day's entertainment invitations graciously, enjoy whatever hospitality is offered me, avoid mentioning anything unpleasant, clean up after myself, quietly do my share of any house chores, chip in for whatever is being eaten, eat whatever is served, take care of all my own requirements and try to have as pleasant a time as possible by being friendly, merry and kind to all. Then I do up my linens, remake the bed fresh for the next guest, tidy up the guest bath and leave, usually leaving a small hostess gift and a note of thanks

I could not pay you enough to give lessons to MIL.

[Avalon]

The ONLY advantage to having to live next door, that's right, next door, to my MIL, is that she doesn't come and stay at our house.

[madasacutsnake]

Originally posted by Avalon
The ONLY advantage to having to live next door, that's right, next door, to my MIL, is that she doesn't come and stay at our house.

Debra?

[Avalon]

ummm..yes???

[Audreyvgs]

The odds of finding a soulmate is more like 1/1000, JT. It's either easy (natural) with someone or it isn't.

[topcat]

mine got away a long time ago

[sparticle]

Originally posted by madasacutsnake
I could not pay you enough to give lessons to MIL.

Probably the biggest problem with that is that the people who need the lessons would never believe that they are the people who need the lessons.

[sparticle]

Originally posted by JesusTitties
huh. this thread went to three pages while i was at work.
huh.


anywho.
maybe sometimes someone just wants their significant other to be able, after a certain amount of time has passed in the relationship, to not have to put the effort into figuring out whats wrong or how he or she likes it.
no matter what 'it' is.

id like to think that soulmates are best friends. i also know that the odds of someone finding their soul mate is about 1/100, but its nice to be optimistic.
on a separate note - its odd with me, i dont just kiss anyone. Its a sacred thing to me. I know that im really into someone if i kiss them a lot.

Well, at the risk of sounding like a preachy old bat, there's one rule I'd recommend: If you're not friends with someone in the first place, for godsakes don't hook up with them for the purposes of sex or, worse yet, to get married and start a family. It will not end well, and it will end.

Friends first. It lessens the rock-throwing potential and increases the chance for happiness. It's not always as romantic that way, but it's almost always better in the long run.

Good luck with it; it may not seem possible at the moment, but it can and will happen for you eventually if you remain open to it.