Thank you

[Zaftig]

I should have known I wasn't going to get away with saying what I said in the random thread without an outpouring of caring, comfort and support from those of you here.

I have recieved many PM's from those of you who do and don't know what Sim and I went through this day last year when I gave birth to our stillborn we named Angel.

I didn't want to be an attention whore by saying anything but after all the PM's I find it easier to just spill things out here in the open. I also wanted to say thank you to all of you have given me support throughout many of my hard days I have had since 'meeting' you. It's been a hard and sometimes unbearable path that I don't wish upon anyone.

So I guess I just wanted to thank all of you for your concern and support not only today but throughout my other dark days that I have had since. Some of those days you have completely changed my mood without even knowing it and I will forever appreciate that.

[/mushiness]

[melissa]

I wish I could do more, Zaftig. But I'm glad that I've helped a little bit.

[Zaftig]

You did!

You women crack me up! I took all of your advice this evening and evidently Sim did too. He took me to the mall! A thing in which he hates. If I saw something I wanted he picked it up. I wish I had a digital camera! I bought 3 beautiful silk pillows and Sim actually found this beautiful pewter fairy with stained glass wings. She is currently all lit up with a tea light candle. I bought one more thing but that's a secret.

Thanks for the great advice ladies!

[drivinmissdaisy]

I am sorry honey. I and many people around me have experienced similar things and all I can say as that though the hurt will always linger, things do actually get better with time.

I wish all the best of luck and will got to bed tonight with you in my prayers.

[zenbabe]

I missed this completely, but just found out a friend of mine had an experience close to yours. It isn't easy. Don't lose hope!

You are very lucky to have each other.

[sparticle]

You have a PM.

The mall sounds like a fine idea. I bet the fairy is beautiful.

XO

[madasacutsnake]

Originally posted by Zaftig
You did!

You women crack me up! I took all of your advice this evening and evidently Sim did too. He took me to the mall! A thing in which he hates. If I saw something I wanted he picked it up. I wish I had a digital camera! I bought 3 beautiful silk pillows and Sim actually found this beautiful pewter fairy with stained glass wings. She is currently all lit up with a tea light candle. I bought one more thing but that's a secret.

Thanks for the great advice ladies!

I am Gooooo-ood.

Sorry Sim. Ha.

[ally]

I'm sorry, I missed this 'topic' too, so here are tons of huggles & nice thoughts for you (I have moonlight sonata playing in the background & tears came to my eye when I read your post). Not much one can say in times like these, you two take good care of each other (but don't torture Sim too much in going to the Mall!!!).Bisous.

[Aphrodite]

I am sorry for your loss.
You are such a positive couple. I wish you only good things.
Good vibes are coming your way.

[daverbee]

I can only echo what everybody else has said.
Thank you both for being here, you light up the place quite nicely, too!

[Coffee]

*Sends Hug vibes to Zaf and Sim*

Peace.

[Zaftig]

My words feel so inadequate. They seem to not match how I feel but nonetheless I hope you know that all the good vibes, thoughts, prayers and concern are making their way here. I kind of feel guilty for having a nice evening last night. Although I am glad I didn't wallow in my pity party alone and that I said something because yesterday was on a downward spiral bigtime and that doesn't help Sim or me. Anyways, Thank you, all of you. . .it really does mean a lot.