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Gatsby · 12-13-2005, 12:40 PM

Yeah, Becks, there was a time in my life when I was single, surrounded by happy+miserable couples, and I was sick of being the shoulder to cry on.

So I just started being honest. No more "Oh, he's a jerk, oh he'll change, oh, I'm so sorry he did that, that sucks, it will be okay, blah blah blah."

I just started laying it on the line: "He'll never change, he's done this before, it's time to get out. Now. When you're ready to actually do it, call me, of course I'll be there to help."

They didn't like hearing it, and it threw them off, but now they only come to me when they really want to hear what I have to say, rather than to be coddled and made to feel better about things.

'Cause whiny friends annoy me.

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12-13-2005, 12:40 PM	#16
Gatsby I used to be a girl Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 2,152	Yeah, Becks, there was a time in my life when I was single, surrounded by happy+miserable couples, and I was sick of being the shoulder to cry on. So I just started being honest. No more "Oh, he's a jerk, oh he'll change, oh, I'm so sorry he did that, that sucks, it will be okay, blah blah blah." I just started laying it on the line: "He'll never change, he's done this before, it's time to get out. Now. When you're ready to actually do it, call me, of course I'll be there to help." They didn't like hearing it, and it threw them off, but now they only come to me when they really want to hear what I have to say, rather than to be coddled and made to feel better about things. 'Cause whiny friends annoy me.