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Old 10-15-2008, 02:18 PM   #1051
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^i'm not able to switch yet, i'm officially still sick. companies don't want to hire sick people.. i'll just have to find something else quick!
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Old 10-15-2008, 02:21 PM   #1052
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Ohhhhh, right. It's all about the bottom line. Well, I really hope some better alternative is forthcoming from somewhere.

Myself, I'm going to start playing the lotto.

Is there a Dutch lotto?
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Old 10-15-2008, 02:23 PM   #1053
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yes but i'm not playing.. although saving money in the bank isn't much better either in the current financial climate.
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Old 10-15-2008, 04:39 PM   #1054
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good luck, Frieds...hope something works out for you

or you could just stink-bomb stinky's car? that might make you feel better
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Old 10-16-2008, 01:15 AM   #1055
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My experience of using goodwill meditation on myself and the person who was really driving me nuts at work is that it really really works

may I be happy
may I be peaceful
may I be free of stress and suffering
may I live with ease

and then

may he (she) be happy
may he (she) be peaceful
may he (she) be free of stress and suffering
may he (she) live with ease

It was definitely not instantaneous but it has now started working, after a few months. It's quite remarkable really...have you tried that with your current coworkers? Or is the problem not "people" related ?
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Old 10-16-2008, 03:12 AM   #1056
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not people related? i dont know what you mean.
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Old 10-16-2008, 03:17 AM   #1057
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let me add to that

thought attracts thought. thinking about one of my coworkers to be happy will attract thoughts from that particular coworker. i will notice this. it's annoying if you already have the feeling that you're being stalked.

best thing with this kind of situation is either to go vulcan and suppress or to repel for as long as you can manage, and if the time is right, run like hell.

i'm a freak magnet, i attract weird people. also disturbed people. i don't take the risk anymore, it's gone seriously bad before and i will not let that happen again.
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Old 10-16-2008, 03:18 AM   #1058
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and now SHUT AP
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Old 10-20-2008, 12:20 PM   #1059
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I feel as if I'm getting a cold.

weh.
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Old 10-20-2008, 07:06 PM   #1060
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i so fwking very much feel like listening to edwyn collins while smoking a bigass honey pollum jongo with vin fwking diesel
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Old 10-22-2008, 11:29 PM   #1061
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I feel like nearly everyone is very far away.
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Old 10-23-2008, 03:14 AM   #1062
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yeah, but everyone's arms are linked :-)
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Old 10-27-2008, 08:07 PM   #1063
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The boy at the taco house asked for my number. I protested that I must be nearly twice his age and brokenhearted -- a bad combination. I tried to say thank you and no, tried to say both really earnestly. It made me sad on so many levels. I feel very weird about it.
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Old 10-28-2008, 07:26 AM   #1064
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^hugs for you, pearly
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Old 10-28-2008, 10:17 AM   #1065
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^^ yeah, but was he cute?

*hugs* as well

today I feel OK, which is nice.
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