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LeahDear · 06-23-2006, 12:45 PM

At least it wasn't your heart that was broken.. that would be worse

Zeismyhero · 06-23-2006, 01:11 PM

If you were honest, then you are living your truth.

Not many people can say they are doing that.

You have freed him to go out there and eventually love someone who can truly love him back.

And you have freed yourself to find someone more compatible to you.

You did the right thing for both of you.

dinzdale · 06-23-2006, 01:12 PM

Would you like some M & M's ?

lapietra · 06-23-2006, 01:59 PM

I'm with ZIMH - you freed each other up to find someone even better for both of you - he'll understand someday, and be grateful.
You done the right 'ting, toots.

In the meantime, avoid these movies:

When Harry Met Sally
Any movie with the word "Chocolate" in it, in any language
Most movies made before 1950

I recommend things like:
Any movie with Schwarzenegger in it
the "Rocky" films
the "Alien" films
Aw heck - just rent a bunch of violent sci-fi crap & you'll be okay.

rmr · 06-23-2006, 02:20 PM

i'm sorry to say but the only thing that heals a broken heart is time and well maybe a great one night stand (just kidding).

feel better.

zenbabe · 06-23-2006, 04:58 PM

^^^^^^^ that going on a complete bender.

Avalon · 06-23-2006, 06:11 PM

Awww Surbhi, I am sorry honey.
As much as it hurts to have our own hearts broken, it is painful to realize that we, ourselves, have that power over someone else's heart. You were honest and that is what matters most. I hope you're feeling better now..atleast a little.

bealeblues · 06-23-2006, 06:20 PM

ordinarily i would agree with zennie on hitting a bender, but now that i'm finally out of my 4 year continuous bender, i'll just agree with rims.

Hermione · 06-23-2006, 06:40 PM

Brynn · 06-23-2006, 07:45 PM

Picture yourself thirty years from now, still with him and wondering how things might have gone if you'd only had the courage to do what you actually did now.
Hang in there!

madasacutsnake · 06-23-2006, 10:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by surbhi

He says he can't talk or see me because it hurts too much. His worst fear was that I would leave him and move on.

He says he hates the guy I will eventually end up with. He told me yesterday that he'll watch as another guy has the life that he was supposed to have with me.

Yes, yes. they will say all of these things and probably mean it at the time too. But time will pass and he will find some-one else more suited to him, he'll find a new worst fear, and he will be happy. He won't listen if you tell him any of this now but be comforted by the idea that what he is going through is temporary.

Jack Flanders · 06-23-2006, 10:14 PM

...and you will love again and one of those times, you'll find the love of your life - corny but true. Keep busy and hang out with friends.

priceyfatprude · 06-24-2006, 02:24 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rmr

i'm sorry to say but the only thing that heals a broken heart is time and well maybe a great one night stand (just kidding).

feel better.

She is right & she is not kidding.

Seriously,

*hugs*

-Peef

Sunnybunny · 06-24-2006, 02:36 AM

I'm with RMR and PFP. The only thing I can add is, be around people who love you as often as you can. When you have talked and thought out all the details of your breakup, it's good to take your mind off your hurt by paying some attention to things that make you happy (in my case, my friends and their kids). It stops you from dwelling. When I broke up with my fiance', they saved me from going crazy.

Keep busy!

I'll say a little prayer for your achy-breaky-heart.

06-23-2006, 12:43 PM	#1
Hermione monkey Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 3,060	broken heart - Last edited by Hermione : 12-24-2006 at 07:37 PM.

06-23-2006, 01:59 PM	#5
lapietra half baked Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: just ducky Posts: 12,078	I'm with ZIMH - you freed each other up to find someone even better for both of you - he'll understand someday, and be grateful. You done the right 'ting, toots. In the meantime, avoid these movies: When Harry Met Sally Any movie with the word "Chocolate" in it, in any language Most movies made before 1950 I recommend things like: Any movie with Schwarzenegger in it the "Rocky" films the "Alien" films Aw heck - just rent a bunch of violent sci-fi crap & you'll be okay. __________________ “As long as the world is turning and spinning, we're gonna be dizzy and we're gonna make mistakes.” ~ Mel Brooks

06-23-2006, 04:58 PM	#7
zenbabe Lollypop! Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: we are all made of stars Posts: 11,690	^^^^^^^ that going on a complete bender. __________________ Be yourself, because the people that mind don't matter, and the people that matter don't mind. -Dr. Seuss

06-23-2006, 06:11 PM	#8
Avalon Moderator Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: A much better place Posts: 5,931	Awww Surbhi, I am sorry honey. As much as it hurts to have our own hearts broken, it is painful to realize that we, ourselves, have that power over someone else's heart. You were honest and that is what matters most. I hope you're feeling better now..atleast a little. __________________ I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be. Yesterday is dead, tomorrow hasn't arrived yet. I have just one day, today, and I'm going to be happy in it. Groucho Marx

06-23-2006, 06:20 PM	#9
bealeblues where's my salt? Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: finally writing Posts: 6,929	ordinarily i would agree with zennie on hitting a bender, but now that i'm finally out of my 4 year continuous bender, i'll just agree with rims. __________________ still jackasinine, make no mistake

06-23-2006, 12:45 PM	#2
LeahDear monkey Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 1,538	At least it wasn't your heart that was broken.. that would be worse

06-23-2006, 01:11 PM	#3
Zeismyhero Happy just to dance w/you Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Standing right behind you... Posts: 353	If you were honest, then you are living your truth. Not many people can say they are doing that. You have freed him to go out there and eventually love someone who can truly love him back. And you have freed yourself to find someone more compatible to you. You did the right thing for both of you.

06-23-2006, 01:12 PM	#4
dinzdale King of the špatnýs Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: was that dog Posts: 9,411	Would you like some M & M's ?

06-23-2006, 02:20 PM	#6
rmr Moderator Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 10,595	i'm sorry to say but the only thing that heals a broken heart is time and well maybe a great one night stand (just kidding). feel better.

06-23-2006, 06:40 PM	#10
Hermione monkey Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 3,060	- Last edited by Hermione : 12-24-2006 at 07:37 PM.

06-23-2006, 07:45 PM	#11
Brynn constantly amazed Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: in the labyrinth of shared happiness Posts: 6,206	Picture yourself thirty years from now, still with him and wondering how things might have gone if you'd only had the courage to do what you actually did now. Hang in there!

06-23-2006, 10:14 PM	#13
Jack Flanders landscaping is fun Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: up river and down river Posts: 4,815	...and you will love again and one of those times, you'll find the love of your life - corny but true. Keep busy and hang out with friends.

06-24-2006, 02:36 AM	#15
Sunnybunny Dizzy Dame Join Date: May 2006 Location: Disneyland Posts: 119	I'm with RMR and PFP. The only thing I can add is, be around people who love you as often as you can. When you have talked and thought out all the details of your breakup, it's good to take your mind off your hurt by paying some attention to things that make you happy (in my case, my friends and their kids). It stops you from dwelling. When I broke up with my fiance', they saved me from going crazy. Keep busy! I'll say a little prayer for your achy-breaky-heart. __________________ Life is a banquet and most poor suckers are starving to death.You've got to LIVE, LIVE, LIVE!" ~ Mame Dennis Burnside

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