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Old 08-19-2012, 06:57 PM   #1696
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Latest news is that she now has an infection, and broad spectrum antibiotics to help her fight it.

I am currently occupied with finding that goddamn mosquito that keeps biting me.
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Old 08-19-2012, 08:53 PM   #1697
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when i am lying on my bed i have a splitting headache. when i sit up it gets better. when i try to get some seep the pain returns.
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Old 08-20-2012, 04:33 PM   #1698
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Best wishes, Frieda
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Old 08-21-2012, 01:05 PM   #1699
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fvck-a-doodle, just heard some weird news on the radio..

a guy got convicted for manslaughter of his wife by slicing her throat and then running away from the police in May 2011.

then i realized the wife they were talking about was my colleague. i didn't know about the throat thing yet, sweet jesus. i wish i'd never known. ugh!
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Old 08-21-2012, 01:20 PM   #1700
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I was just thinking about you today, Frieda. Sending you good thoughts.
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Old 08-21-2012, 05:28 PM   #1701
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thanks everyone, for all the good thoughts, kind words & nice suggestions!

my mom's coming home from the hospital either tomorrow or the day after. she can eat, pee and poop again, and she still has a fever but they can't find any signs of infection so they think it may just be the healing in progress.

they'll keep her on antibiotics and paracetamol though, and a potassium supplement.
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Old 08-21-2012, 10:15 PM   #1702
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Hoping that you mom pulls through to a speedy recovery from this latest crisis.
Hang in there Frieda.
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Old 08-22-2012, 09:54 AM   #1703
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good to hear she is a little better. happies to your mom and you, too!
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Old 09-01-2012, 06:57 AM   #1704
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pfft, it's two different kinds of cancer. no-one can battle that shit.
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Old 09-02-2012, 10:15 AM   #1705
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jeez... *hugs* freeds, *hugs*
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Old 08-23-2013, 07:35 PM   #1706
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My mom is entering the last phase of her life.. Would appreciate good thoughts & vibes & prayers & things to help her move on in peace..

it's hard, and strange. Can't believe she won't be here anymore in a few weeks.
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Old 08-24-2013, 12:14 PM   #1707
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I am really sorry this is happening.
I will pray for your mom. And for your dad and you, too. This is a difficult time for all of you. If there was an emoticon for compassion that would hug you and rock you and let you cry and cry with you I would put it here.
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Old 08-25-2013, 07:26 AM   #1708
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Oh, Frieda. I'm so sorry.
My chosen prayers have a long tradition of helping with transition, and I will think of her. This will be a transition for you, too, and it will be hard, but many people have weathered it before you. You will survive it, and you will survive it as your mother's daughter.

You've talked some about your relationship with your mother being complicated, and I think sometimes that makes it a little more painful...there is a lot of housekeeping of feelings to do. It has helped me to see a counselor during times of transition, and I hope you will think about finding one when you're ready to work through more than you can do yourself.

Do you have enough people? You need some good people.
Also ice cream would be good.

Much love to you.
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Old 08-25-2013, 10:13 AM   #1709
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Love, peace, acceptance, comfort to you and your whole family, Frieda. I only wish that we could bear some of the burden of grief with you.
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