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Old 01-19-2011, 10:26 AM   #1561
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^ I feel satisfied, as I bunged the last one in the mail yesterday afternoon

I also feel annoyed at the persistent twitching muscle in my left forearm.
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Old 01-20-2011, 11:08 PM   #1562
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You could stack oranges on me and I wouldn't be inclined to move.
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Old 02-09-2011, 06:56 PM   #1563
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so my mom should have gone to the hospital every other month for her cancer checkups and she just didn't go.

i'm not sure what to think, is this some weird form of suicide?
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Old 02-09-2011, 07:00 PM   #1564
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I'm sorry, Frieda.
Maybe it just seemed easier not to face it.
You can offer her some encouragement to care for herself, but other than that, all you can do is take good care of your own self.
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Old 02-11-2011, 08:09 AM   #1565
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maybe ask her and listen to her talk about her fears

if she starts talking about it it might (only might, i'm afraid) help her decide to go and face them and decide for a check-up

you should try to avoid telling her that the fear of not knowing is bigger and grows with time, but it would be good if she realised it all by herself through talking

it is very difficult

my heart is with you and your mom
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Old 02-12-2011, 11:48 AM   #1566
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frieda

but ysa's suggestion sounds sensible.

good luck ... and hugging you tightly.
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Old 02-12-2011, 01:49 PM   #1567
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thanks guys.. you're the best.. makes me feel a little better about it all
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Old 02-13-2011, 11:36 AM   #1568
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*hugs* Frieda,

it's hard to watch people do stuff like that, but you can't change how anyone else runs their life - even (especially) your mother. glad you're feeling better - just make sure she knows you love her and support her. unconditional love is very powerful!
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Old 02-22-2011, 09:12 AM   #1569
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a bit sad - but just a bit.
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Old 02-28-2011, 05:17 AM   #1570
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'The woods are lovely, dark and deep,
But I have promises to keep,
And miles to go before I sleep,
And miles to go before I sleep.'
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Old 02-28-2011, 12:56 PM   #1571
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Still weepy.
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Old 02-28-2011, 03:41 PM   #1572
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Old 02-28-2011, 11:00 PM   #1573
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^So sorry, Coffee. I still get weepy after more than a year. But I also have an easier time calling up the happier memories now that some time has passed. That time will come for you, too.
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Old 03-01-2011, 03:09 AM   #1574
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so sorry, Coff
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Old 03-01-2011, 04:09 AM   #1575
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Still weepy.
I so understand. We loved them and they loved us.
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