|06-15-2005, 04:18 PM||#17|
Join Date: Sep 2002
Location: The Netherlands
we have this huge sign hanging on the wall at work at the servicedesk that says "assumptions are the cause of most ****ups"
i'm going to print this one too
zoek waar je wil, maar het zit in jezelf
|06-15-2005, 05:12 PM||#18|
Join Date: Feb 2005
Location: in the labyrinth of shared happiness
I look forward to zero's posts every day. In a short time, they've become a necessity.
And Trisherina I love.
Venus, sweetie, please don't do this.
People do things when they are hurt that they deeply regret later, and I'm sure that there's a part of you that's already doing that.
I really just got here, but let's pretend I'm your big sister. My best advice is to drop this.
Your previous postings make me believe that you truly are a funny, classy, inventive person.
On this message board, we all have the opportunity to be our best selves.
Personally, I don't come here for reality.
And yet, it's a safe place to be most myself - that self that gets to transcend reality.
Please let this continue being a safe place for discerning monkeys.
The ferocity with which people retaliated is an indication of just how important that concept is to people here.
If you feel someone is being predatory, put them on your ignore list.
Revenge is a motive that will eat you alive. I know you've told yourself you just want to warn people, but you have to realize that most of us are grown ups who know what the internet is already, and make our own choices.
Please work this out off board and get to a place of forgiveness - I'm afraid that's your only mature option at this point.
Be your best self, darlin'. Once you hit your thirties, that gets easier and easier to do.
I'm sure everyone here has at least one time in their lives behaved badly when emotionally stressed. Let's all just put down our rocks.
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