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Old 06-23-2006, 12:43 PM   #1
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Unhappy broken heart

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Old 06-23-2006, 12:45 PM   #2
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At least it wasn't your heart that was broken.. that would be worse
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Old 06-23-2006, 01:11 PM   #3
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If you were honest, then you are living your truth.

Not many people can say they are doing that.

You have freed him to go out there and eventually love someone who can truly love him back.

And you have freed yourself to find someone more compatible to you.

You did the right thing for both of you.
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Old 06-23-2006, 01:12 PM   #4
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Would you like some M & M's ?
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Old 06-23-2006, 01:59 PM   #5
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I'm with ZIMH - you freed each other up to find someone even better for both of you - he'll understand someday, and be grateful.
You done the right 'ting, toots.

In the meantime, avoid these movies:

When Harry Met Sally
Any movie with the word "Chocolate" in it, in any language
Most movies made before 1950

I recommend things like:
Any movie with Schwarzenegger in it
the "Rocky" films
the "Alien" films
Aw heck - just rent a bunch of violent sci-fi crap & you'll be okay.
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Old 06-23-2006, 02:20 PM   #6
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i'm sorry to say but the only thing that heals a broken heart is time and well maybe a great one night stand (just kidding).

feel better.
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Old 06-23-2006, 04:58 PM   #7
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^^^^^^^ that going on a complete bender.
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Old 06-23-2006, 06:11 PM   #8
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Awww Surbhi, I am sorry honey.
As much as it hurts to have our own hearts broken, it is painful to realize that we, ourselves, have that power over someone else's heart. You were honest and that is what matters most. I hope you're feeling better now..atleast a little.
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Old 06-23-2006, 06:20 PM   #9
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ordinarily i would agree with zennie on hitting a bender, but now that i'm finally out of my 4 year continuous bender, i'll just agree with rims.
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Old 06-23-2006, 06:40 PM   #10
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Old 06-23-2006, 07:45 PM   #11
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Picture yourself thirty years from now, still with him and wondering how things might have gone if you'd only had the courage to do what you actually did now.
Hang in there!
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Old 06-23-2006, 10:01 PM   #12
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Quote:
Originally Posted by surbhi
He says he can't talk or see me because it hurts too much. His worst fear was that I would leave him and move on.

He says he hates the guy I will eventually end up with. He told me yesterday that he'll watch as another guy has the life that he was supposed to have with me.
Yes, yes. they will say all of these things and probably mean it at the time too. But time will pass and he will find some-one else more suited to him, he'll find a new worst fear, and he will be happy. He won't listen if you tell him any of this now but be comforted by the idea that what he is going through is temporary.
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Old 06-23-2006, 10:14 PM   #13
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...and you will love again and one of those times, you'll find the love of your life - corny but true. Keep busy and hang out with friends.
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Old 06-24-2006, 02:24 AM   #14
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Originally Posted by rmr
i'm sorry to say but the only thing that heals a broken heart is time and well maybe a great one night stand (just kidding).

feel better.
She is right & she is not kidding.

Seriously,

*hugs*

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Old 06-24-2006, 02:36 AM   #15
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I'm with RMR and PFP. The only thing I can add is, be around people who love you as often as you can. When you have talked and thought out all the details of your breakup, it's good to take your mind off your hurt by paying some attention to things that make you happy (in my case, my friends and their kids). It stops you from dwelling. When I broke up with my fiance', they saved me from going crazy.

Keep busy!

I'll say a little prayer for your achy-breaky-heart.
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