09-11-2003, 01:16 AM
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09-11-2003, 01:16 AM
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Lollypop!
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I think a rapist getting raped in prison is justice, and well deserved. What I am wondering is a man's perspective on getting raped. A normal, nice guy. How he would handle it. If it would be anything like how a chick would deal with it. What would make it different. Social stigmas that wouldn't allow him to talk about it and what that would manifest into.... We can talk about prison rape if you want...but that's not what I am talking about....
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09-11-2003, 01:25 AM
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Oh, I think I see... normal nice guys are not found in prisons, so prisons are not relevant. Ah.
Miz Mal, do you have any links that will enlighten? I know you've already posted about effects and how people deal (or can't deal), and it looks like you found some stats. |
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09-11-2003, 01:34 AM
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cat I haven't cruised the local prisons, so I don't know if normal nice guys hang out there. But I am willing to bet that there arn't many. There are stories about people that are justified by DNA 10 years later that are exempt, but for the most part..I think they get everything that is coming to them.
I just don't think that men ever consider getting raped the way women do and I want to know what they think about it. and what their reaction would be..and how they would feel....I am really curious... rob is the only guy that has commented.
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09-11-2003, 01:52 AM
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Not everyone in prison is a killer mutant psychopath who has committed unspeakably perverse crimes, and not everyone outside is a normal nice guy. But, whatever (LOL we can debate this in the "bias" thread).
The reason I bring up rape in prison is that I think your Joe Average guy may not be that hugely different - psychologically speaking - from someone in prison, so discounting that whole area of study / discussion is going to narrow the information you are going to get. But, maybe that's what you're going for, that narrow focus on a particular type of person? IMO the studies on the rape of the average nice guy are going to be pretty thin, I will wait for Miz Mal's stats but I would think that the normal nice guy is the least likely to report. I think Rob is the only guy in the debate forum, period! |
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09-11-2003, 03:44 AM
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Lollypop!
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the reason I don't want to talk about guy on guy rape in prison is because I am trying to focus on what would happen to a man if he was raped on the way home from buying milk from the corner store.
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09-11-2003, 03:12 PM
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monkey
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I'll do a google search
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09-12-2003, 05:26 AM
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