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02-12-2003, 05:11 PM
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WAAAAAA, i don't wanna stop *sniff* but if it's the only way i guess I'll have to go buy batteries
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02-12-2003, 06:15 PM
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Red, if you like having sex with the guy no need to stop. people suggest Lysistratian justice as if women don't enjoy sex. for some women, denying sex is just as much a punishment for them as it would be for their partners. talk to the guy. the best things are accomplished in a completely honest environment. explain to him your worries, frustrations and fears in a very calm, neutral manner. avoid "you make me feel" and "when you do this". put focus on you and your feelings. from this you'll get one of three responses: -he'll tell you something you don't want to hear. perhaps something you're NOT willing to deal with. at least this way it's out in the open, the worrying is over and you can decide the most effective course of action from here -he'll tell you something you didn't expect. perhaps soemthing that you ARE willing to deal with. together, through this honesty, you're on your way to building a stronger relationship. -he won't honour your honest communication by offering the same. if he clams up and refuses to give you the information you request, then that alone should be a reason to let him go. it's not always easy to confront someone with our vulnerabilities. but only with open communication and honesty can a relationship be truly genuine. just my 65 cents. -st. |
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02-12-2003, 06:20 PM
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Thanks Deviate, i appreciate it.
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02-12-2003, 06:22 PM
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anytime, babe. hope you get through this tough time.
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02-12-2003, 06:28 PM
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I'll be fine, i got this far....still don't see any dancing naked guys offering me drinks
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02-12-2003, 06:38 PM
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02-12-2003, 07:12 PM
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ha-yuk!
gorsh. -st. |
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02-12-2003, 08:24 PM
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<<--just read Lysistrata last year
I am so excited that I got that reference.
very interesting convo BTW - funny how many ways relationships can be challenged...
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02-12-2003, 09:07 PM
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Girl talk
Pfft <---- glad to be single for once :this is a joke:
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02-12-2003, 09:24 PM
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careful there, there's been much rowdiness going around today
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