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Klynne · 10-30-2003, 11:47 PM

Sam is 42, and he can't get not play, if you know what I mean...Girls only want to be his friend...What is his problem? Not a bad looking guy, he gives good back rubs. HE NEEDS ADVICE HELP!!!!

Coffee · 10-30-2003, 11:49 PM

Tell him not to ask me for advice...and when he gets some advice that helps him...tell him to share with me please.

catbelly · 10-30-2003, 11:52 PM

I have a friend sort of like that, but he's slightly younger (34) and I don't know about his back rub status. He *is* a really good cook, though. People are always asking me if he's gay, I don't think so... if he is, he doesn't know yet. So, I think that's part of the problem re: attracting women.

But! Not to make it all about my friend... tell us more about Sam!

Klynne · 10-30-2003, 11:55 PM

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Originally posted by nycwriters
What does he do? What are his hobbies? Do you have a photo? Is he educated? Does he have a sense of humor? Does he take himself too seriously? Does he overanalyze? Is he confident?

He is a salesman. He is the soundman for a blues band. No, photo, no, but that could be arranged. He has an HS education. He is funny as hell. No, he goes with the flow. He is very laid back.

malina · 10-30-2003, 11:57 PM

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Originally posted by Klynne
Sam is 42, and he can't get not play, if you know what I mean...Girls only want to be his friend...What is his problem? Not a bad looking guy, he gives good back rubs. HE NEEDS ADVICE HELP!!!!

what does he need advice for?

Klynne · 10-31-2003, 12:04 AM

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Originally posted by catbelly
I have a friend sort of like that, but he's slightly younger (34) and I don't know about his back rub status. He *is* a really good cook, though. People are always asking me if he's gay, I don't think so... if he is, he doesn't know yet. So, I think that's part of the problem re: attracting women.

But! Not to make it all about my friend... tell us more about Sam!

Hook me up! Sounds perfect, I like to eat.

Klynne · 10-31-2003, 12:06 AM

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Originally posted by nycwriters
What are your reasons for never dating him (even if you're attached, what would the reason be)?

He is like a brother to me.

malina · 10-31-2003, 12:08 AM

and what was his problem again?

Klynne · 10-31-2003, 12:18 AM

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Originally posted by malina
and what was his problem again?

Now he says he wants to see me naked. No way. That would be like flashing my brothers!

malina · 10-31-2003, 12:20 AM

is sam a sock puppet?

Klynne · 10-31-2003, 12:27 AM

Sam assures you he is not a sock puppet.

catbelly · 10-31-2003, 12:28 AM

Ohhhh kay.... maybe this thread should be re-routed to "how to give the smackdown to guy friends who want to see you naked" - because at least that's something Klynne can control, eh?

Klynne · 10-31-2003, 12:31 AM

You got that right home girl

Klynne · 10-31-2003, 01:13 AM

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Originally posted by catbelly
Ohhhh kay.... maybe this thread should be re-routed to "how to give the smackdown to guy friends who want to see you naked" - because at least that's something Klynne can control, eh?

Have you ever had the same problem Catbelly? Guys that say they are your friends, swear to it, and then try to get too friendly?
You think everything is agreed, and then they get aggressive on you?

jaymirror · 10-31-2003, 06:10 AM

What do you mean by aggressive?

Does he hurt you? Did he hurt you? If he does or did, then you should make it clear to him that you don't like it. Just tell him. And then keep the distance. If you're scared he could hurt you again, find someone who knows both of you and tell him (better if he is a he, your brother, cousin, father, whoever you can trust) and then tell your friend you told him. Still keep the distance.

If he doesn't hurt then I don't see the problem. He likes you and tries to take his chance. If you can't stand it, keep some more distance for a while. Maybe in a few weeks it will all be over.

10-30-2003, 11:47 PM	#1
Klynne monkey Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Grand Rapids, MI Posts: 4,543	Answer Sam's Question Sam is 42, and he can't get not play, if you know what I mean...Girls only want to be his friend...What is his problem? Not a bad looking guy, he gives good back rubs. HE NEEDS ADVICE HELP!!!!

10-31-2003, 06:10 AM	#15
jaymirror anartist Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: out there Posts: 1,420	What do you mean by aggressive? Does he hurt you? Did he hurt you? If he does or did, then you should make it clear to him that you don't like it. Just tell him. And then keep the distance. If you're scared he could hurt you again, find someone who knows both of you and tell him (better if he is a he, your brother, cousin, father, whoever you can trust) and then tell your friend you told him. Still keep the distance. If he doesn't hurt then I don't see the problem. He likes you and tries to take his chance. If you can't stand it, keep some more distance for a while. Maybe in a few weeks it will all be over. __________________ Learning how to conjugate irregular verbs

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10-30-2003, 11:49 PM	#2
Coffee Cheeses Save Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Floating Posts: 9,204	Tell him not to ask me for advice...and when he gets some advice that helps him...tell him to share with me please.

10-30-2003, 11:52 PM	#3
catbelly monkey Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: the north Posts: 1,757	I have a friend sort of like that, but he's slightly younger (34) and I don't know about his back rub status. He is a really good cook, though. People are always asking me if he's gay, I don't think so... if he is, he doesn't know yet. So, I think that's part of the problem re: attracting women. But! Not to make it all about my friend... tell us more about Sam!

10-31-2003, 12:08 AM	#8
malina leaving Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: up on the hill Posts: 6,013	and what was his problem again?

10-31-2003, 12:20 AM	#10
malina leaving Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: up on the hill Posts: 6,013	is sam a sock puppet?

10-31-2003, 12:27 AM	#11
Klynne monkey Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Grand Rapids, MI Posts: 4,543	Sam assures you he is not a sock puppet.

10-31-2003, 12:28 AM	#12
catbelly monkey Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: the north Posts: 1,757	Ohhhh kay.... maybe this thread should be re-routed to "how to give the smackdown to guy friends who want to see you naked" - because at least that's something Klynne can control, eh?

10-31-2003, 12:31 AM	#13
Klynne monkey Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Grand Rapids, MI Posts: 4,543	You got that right home girl