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Old 05-19-2004, 11:01 AM   #1
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Analyze this

What do you do when a friend suddenly turns around and tells you...

"I don't need anyone to be happy."

Because I certainly don't know what to make of it. Is it defensive; aggressive; apathetic... what is this maan, what!
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Old 05-19-2004, 11:39 AM   #2
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maybe it means...

"I don't need anyone to be happy."
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Old 05-19-2004, 11:53 AM   #3
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And it's good to be in charge of your own happiness.
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Old 05-19-2004, 11:54 AM   #4
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Old 05-19-2004, 11:56 AM   #5
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It means you friend is momentarily thinking about himself, and noone else. Given time, this will change.
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Old 05-19-2004, 11:57 AM   #6
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The subject is "happy" That's all. Why fear people that can make their own happiness? It doesn’t necessarily imply that others can’t make them happy too.
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Old 05-19-2004, 12:32 PM   #7
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i think it means that what others think or feel does not affect his own happiness. doesnt mean he doesnt care, just that he doesnt rely on others to set his moods.
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Old 05-19-2004, 01:14 PM   #8
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what if the he is actually a she -- someone you've known for years...

Does that change anything...?
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Old 05-19-2004, 01:22 PM   #9
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Old 05-19-2004, 02:55 PM   #10
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Quote:
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The subject is "happy" That's all. Why fear people that can make their own happiness? It doesn’t necessarily imply that others can’t make them happy too.
That's true. They didn't say they didn't "WANT" anyone. They said they don't "NEED" anyone to be happy. So maybe they are trying to be self reliant and not expect others to make them happy. But it depends on the context in which they said it and the tone. Like, did they say it in that Greta Garbo "I vant to be a-lone" kind of tone?
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Old 05-19-2004, 04:05 PM   #11
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Yell "STOP PLAYING GAMES WITH MY HEAD!!!"
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Old 05-19-2004, 04:21 PM   #12
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Well, you could ask her why she said it.

I hope she was saying it in the sense agentsmith describes and not in the mean, "who needs you?" way that some people will turn around and claim is "only being honest".

For right now, what I would do is either to ask what she means so that you can discuss it further (and in terms of what it might mean relative to you), or to say "Well, that's good, I suppose," and wait to see if there is more she wants to say. I'd vote for asking. It never hurts to ask someone to clarify what they mean. Then, the door is open for further discussion.

Talk about it with her.
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Old 05-19-2004, 04:30 PM   #13
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I forgot we had the Shell Answer Monkey in here.....

YOU'D be better off with a parrot. HE asked a question. Snarly farker!
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