Just Say It

05.15 i love you Patricia I don't know. You've dumped me, ignored me, kicked me out of your life. After everything that's happened, you are the only one I think about, the only one I imagine life being full with, the only. I'm sorry it took so long to learn. I've made my mistakes, and not coming back to you sooner was another one in the journey. Being lonely is better than pretending any one is good enough compared to you, and even if you never know the capacity of my love for you, I hope you will feel it. Always.

05.15 i love you Buscar I would love it if you would post a link on your wall! Let's see go and like Limepop Photography on FB then you will see the link on my wall, and under it, it will have an opiotn to share and then an opiotn to share on your wall that is the easiest way, probably, but you can link to it directly using this code: Thanks SO much for sharing your gallery will be ready soon!Best,Laura

05.15 i love you Kristian , “I need you to run new electrical winirg to the basement,” I’m going to panic, freeze, make excuses, stay at the office. I have no clue how to do this and you’re setting me up for failure.2) You’re asking me to do something that’s foreign to me. While we were dating, I could laugh, have fun, be interested and ask you questions. But that was easy stuff. Now we’re dealing with deep stuff. You’ve changed, I’ve changed. We’ve got kids. Life is complicated. Whew, I’m checking out.3) I have a lot of anxiety. You know that already, which is why you manage the kids and me and everything in the house. Now you’re asking me to deal with difficult emotional issues? I can solve problems at work using my brain and logic, but this emotional stuff scares me.4) I’m a big baby. A big freakin’ baby. I want everyone else to change, not me. If the kids weren’t so difficult, if you could just deal with stuff, if my boss, if if if. It’s a big excuse. And at some point, I have to grow up and be a man.5) I’m afraid to be vulnerable. My Dad was tough on me, we didn’t show emotion. That was weakness. If I open up, you may reject me. I may reject myself. I’ll stay inside my little cocoon because it’s safe there.6) I make excuses and hide. Listen, I go to work, I earn a good living, I don’t run around or go drinking with the guys. What else do you want from me?7) I manipulate. “You know what? I’m doing my best here, but it’s never good enough! Maybe you guys would just be better off without me. I’m not even good at this anyway.” I did that to manipulate my family–partly because I was a big baby and partly because I didn’t know how to be different.(8) I won’t take you seriously because you don’t have any self-respect. You do your little complaining here and there, and occasionally make threats, but I know if I don’t step up, you’ll just take care of everything anyway because you care, you are dutiful and you don’t have the emotional strength now to fight this. So as long as you kind of suffer in silence, it allows me to hide. But once you start talking about taking my kids, my house and half of my future income, I start to pay attention.9) I’ve resigned myself to this being the way it is. It was fun early on and at one time I loved you, but if something happened to you, it might just be a relief. Asking me to truly connect with you just seems impossible to me. Let’s not kid ourselves here.10) I need some help. I’ve got ADHD, I’m bipolar, I am suffering from depression. But I can’t ask for help. I’m too proud or too scared. And so I drag my family down along with me. If I got some help for these conditions, I may just have the ability to work on our relationship.This isn’t everything, but I can guarantee many of your husbands feel several of these. Just some food for thought. What are your thoughts?

05.15 i love you Simon Lauren - I could not be happier with how the weidndg pictures turned out. Tom and Kevin captured every moment of the day perfectly. Zach and I cannot wait to display the pictures in our home, they will make us happy every time we look at them. Thank you!!

05.15 i love you ze you help me laugh when i need to stop crying. you remind me to give openly, to love freely, to laugh often, to create, and to inspire others.

05.15 i love you Jon the fog of that city reminds me of you, like it could hold your scent. and though we push & pull at each other over the years of friendship, lust, and absence, you will always be in my heart.

05.15 i love you Jonathon I like to get all the little thigns done (first) and sometimes that gets in the way, both mentally and concretely. I am a good prioritizer, which is very helpful and I make lists to help myself remember. Sometimes just writing it down satisfies that immediate need to have it done. It makes me feel organized and in control of my load. I don't have to worry that I'll forget. I can look at my list and determine what is important to get done and what I'd rather be doing. I am aware when I am doing thigns that aren't a priority, but managing that, for the satisfaction is just as important as getting the stuff done that is a priority. In other words, if you have some extra time or can manage your time well, then you can grab a few moments of rather be doings to satisfy an immediate need. I do recognize when I tend to get caught up in busy work , that is not a priority, it's because I'm feeling dis-organized or need to get some control over my load. So in those moments, I have to re-evaluate my priorities. I keep short term lists and long term lists. I have a long list of house repairs attached to the refrigerator, which aren't immediate priorities, though I'd like to have them done and we'll get to them as we do. Then the daily/weekly stuff I keep on a large post it note, so I can refer to it each day and move it , if necessary, to the next day.

05.15 i love you jonah ...always remember someone does.

05.15 i love you jonah because you are weak but proud. Tortured but strong. Breaking yet unbreakable. Almost like a paradox. But life goes on from our mysteries and could-have-beens. So go on. You'll be ok. I know it.

05.15 i love you Joel You are the best that you can be. You try your hardest to make the world a better place to live in for everyone, not just yourself, taking up for things that aren't even your fault because it's right. You give me something beautiful to be thankful for. So, thank you.

05.14 i love you Aloha If you have been the subject of a FALSE Ripoff Report I want you to stop letitng them get a way with it by letitng your voice be heard. I want you to post the names of those who are smearing you on the internet to let them know how it feels for a change.

05.14 i love you Jason Given that the survey asks, if you can only have ONE child, which would you want. I woendr how much of that has to do with passing on the family name. If you were to ask if you could have two children would you want 2 boys, 2 girls, 1 each or no preference I woendr what the results would be. My guess is one of each would be the most likely answer.I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting a particular gender so long as it doesn't turn into resentment against your child if they're the wrong gender. I always envisioned my DD as a girl when I was pregnant (we didn't find out the gender). I don't know if it was intuition that she was a girl or if it was a preference that I wasn't consciously acknowledging. I just couldn't picture the baby being born a boy. Sometimes I woendr if that's why DH and I could never really agree on a boy name we really loved. We went to the hospital with one we could agree on, but I can't say I loved it the way I loved our girl's name.DH admits that he wanted a boy until DD turned out to be a girl. Now with #2, he has a strong feeling that it's a girl too which is funny because this pregnancy, I keep picturing myself as a boy. Maybe it's my unconscious desire to have one of each?

05.14 i love you Jennai When I can't sleep, I think of you, how happy and lucky I am, and life becomes manageable again.

05.14 i love you Nehal You are a fantastic father, great listener, wonderful friend. I love that you would rather be with us than anywhere else. You are still my soulmate after all these years. Sometimes I forget, but thank goodness you don't.

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05.14 i love you Ariane because you're my snowflake! my sunshine! the girl that's always with me! Love ya!! =)

05.14 i love you Justin You're so considerate and always go out of your way for other people.

05.14 i love you Heather as much as you loved boogie

05.14 i love you Tristan i said so, that's why

05.14 i love you Steve You are you

05.14 i love you Aurora and that´s all i got to say today...

05.11 i love you LuLu You are a person of wonderful, making my heart break with your beauty. I wish for you to be always be mine and for you to love me back...

05.11 i love you Mitch Because your to good to me.

05.11 i love you Julie because you have the most beautiful smile. :D

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05.11 i love you Catherine because you are my anchor

05.10 i love you Ryan because you're a good natured person who always means well.

05.10 i love you Me because through the good times and the bad, you've always been there with...you? I'm the best!

05.10 i love you Dennis You and I are alike in a lot of ways and you....are you.

05.10 i love you Cindy you are a part of me. I hurt when you hurt.

05.10 i love you Anna Even if a bird pooped on your head

05.09 i love you sihuang you are my baby, and my angel.

05.09 i love you Aspen because you have the kindest heart of anyone human being I have ever met.

05.09 i love you Anaís You're the most complete and full of love person anyone could ever meet.

05.08 i love you Brittney ..always remember that someone does.

05.08 i love you Michelle I hope we stay friends forever.

05.08 i love you Nikki You are such a wonderful person!!!

05.08 i love you Brianne I hope you know that, because I always will.

05.08 i love you Chloe You remind me every day that I am a stronger and better person than I think I am

05.08 i love you Ari because you are trying so hard.

05.07 i love you joe because you are tender and smart

05.07 i love you Andrew you have great eyes

05.07 i love you Maria You always make me smile.

05.07 i love you noor because you make me a better person on a daily basis

05.07 i love you Megan You help me remember the joy that every moment has wrapped up inside of it.

05.07 i love you Araceli Vazquez Rivera Por que eres una persona simplemente excepcional y deferente. Hermosa inteligente con un gran corazón

05.07 i love you i love you all. everyone that contributes makes me realize i am not so small in this world.