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Hermione 06-23-2006 12:43 PM

broken heart
 
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LeahDear 06-23-2006 12:45 PM

At least it wasn't your heart that was broken.. that would be worse

Zeismyhero 06-23-2006 01:11 PM

If you were honest, then you are living your truth.

Not many people can say they are doing that.

You have freed him to go out there and eventually love someone who can truly love him back.

And you have freed yourself to find someone more compatible to you.

You did the right thing for both of you.

dinzdale 06-23-2006 01:12 PM

Would you like some M & M's ?

lapietra 06-23-2006 01:59 PM

I'm with ZIMH - you freed each other up to find someone even better for both of you - he'll understand someday, and be grateful.
You done the right 'ting, toots. :cool:

In the meantime, avoid these movies:

When Harry Met Sally
Any movie with the word "Chocolate" in it, in any language
Most movies made before 1950

I recommend things like:
Any movie with Schwarzenegger in it
the "Rocky" films
the "Alien" films
Aw heck - just rent a bunch of violent sci-fi crap & you'll be okay. ;)

rmr 06-23-2006 02:20 PM

i'm sorry to say but the only thing that heals a broken heart is time and well maybe a great one night stand (just kidding).

feel better.

zenbabe 06-23-2006 04:58 PM

^^^^^^^ that going on a complete bender.

Avalon 06-23-2006 06:11 PM

Awww Surbhi, I am sorry honey.
As much as it hurts to have our own hearts broken, it is painful to realize that we, ourselves, have that power over someone else's heart. You were honest and that is what matters most. I hope you're feeling better now..atleast a little.

bealeblues 06-23-2006 06:20 PM

ordinarily i would agree with zennie on hitting a bender, but now that i'm finally out of my 4 year continuous bender, i'll just agree with rims.

Hermione 06-23-2006 06:40 PM

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Brynn 06-23-2006 07:45 PM

Picture yourself thirty years from now, still with him and wondering how things might have gone if you'd only had the courage to do what you actually did now.
Hang in there!

madasacutsnake 06-23-2006 10:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by surbhi
He says he can't talk or see me because it hurts too much. His worst fear was that I would leave him and move on.

He says he hates the guy I will eventually end up with. He told me yesterday that he'll watch as another guy has the life that he was supposed to have with me.

Yes, yes. they will say all of these things and probably mean it at the time too. But time will pass and he will find some-one else more suited to him, he'll find a new worst fear, and he will be happy. He won't listen if you tell him any of this now but be comforted by the idea that what he is going through is temporary.

Jack Flanders 06-23-2006 10:14 PM

...and you will love again and one of those times, you'll find the love of your life - corny but true. Keep busy and hang out with friends.

priceyfatprude 06-24-2006 02:24 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rmr
i'm sorry to say but the only thing that heals a broken heart is time and well maybe a great one night stand (just kidding).

feel better.

She is right & she is not kidding. ;)

Seriously,

*hugs*

-Peef

Sunnybunny 06-24-2006 02:36 AM

I'm with RMR and PFP. The only thing I can add is, be around people who love you as often as you can. When you have talked and thought out all the details of your breakup, it's good to take your mind off your hurt by paying some attention to things that make you happy (in my case, my friends and their kids). It stops you from dwelling. When I broke up with my fiance', they saved me from going crazy.

Keep busy!

I'll say a little prayer for your achy-breaky-heart. :)

trisherina 06-24-2006 03:20 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by surbhi
I didn't want to break up. I'm still in love with him. It's hard because I didn't want to do this.. I still want to be with him but I know that it can't happen right now.

I've never had this happen. It sounds very difficult. I'm sorry you can't be together. :(

12"razormix 06-24-2006 09:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by surbhi
I still want to be with him but I know that it can't happen right now.

i'm curious.... why can't it happen now?

nycwriters 06-25-2006 03:27 AM

I hate to see you hurting. You were (are) one of my most favourite people in the world.

Chin up though. Your heart told you what to do, now have the courage of your convictions.

bealeblues 06-26-2006 02:27 PM

he won't tell you now, but you did him a favor by telling him.

now do him another favor by not waffling on what you've said- that will only fvck with his head

press on.

Brynn 06-28-2006 10:39 PM

could not agree more emphatically.
everything's going to be okay. you'll see. honest.

Frieda 07-01-2006 05:01 AM

big hug for you, surbs.. hang in there!

Jersey 10-17-2006 05:07 PM

Crying in Jersey
 
I feel like I'm loosing my mind, I have been having dreams of my first love the one man I ever loved completely and the man who seems to own a piece of me and I cant get it back no matter how I may try, I met him very young at 15 and it lasted 9 years on and off he was not perfect and he broke my heart to pieces many times, but now after my life has gone on with nothing of him in it I woke up today after not seeing him for about 5 years and feel like I must see him I must know where he is what he is doing I feel compelled but don't want to contact him and cause any waves if he has gone on and got married or something its eating me up inside:(

Brynn 10-17-2006 09:12 PM

Let me get this straight - he's the reason you can't love anybody completely now, since he broke your heart, right? And you want him back to break your heart again? I'm confused :confused:

priceyfatprude 10-18-2006 03:14 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jersey
I feel like I'm loosing my mind, I have been having dreams of my first love the one man I ever loved completely and the man who seems to own a piece of me and I cant get it back no matter how I may try, I met him very young at 15 and it lasted 9 years on and off he was not perfect and he broke my heart to pieces many times, but now after my life has gone on with nothing of him in it I woke up today after not seeing him for about 5 years and feel like I must see him I must know where he is what he is doing I feel compelled but don't want to contact him and cause any waves if he has gone on and got married or something its eating me up inside:(

That was one hell of a run on sentence.

Let's see if this person posts again.

Hyakujo's Fox 10-18-2006 07:22 AM

maybe one of those drive-by confessions

Coffee 10-18-2006 12:48 PM

Quote:

That was one hell of a run on sentence.
He broke her heart and her punctuation.

Jack Flanders 10-18-2006 01:52 PM

period.

craig johnston 10-18-2006 07:18 PM

where is surbhi these days?

:confused:


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