Crap, Frieda.
I'm sorry.
Any news?
(thinking good thoughts for her)

^yeah, my manipulation didn't work :( docs say it's fixable but there's going to be surgery and/or radiation and, well, i'll just say it sucks big blue monkey balls cause i can't find any other words to describe it. she's going through a rough time and it's hard for me to see her in so much pain. thanks for asking, please keep sending good thoughts, i really appreciate it :):)




and ^^ally welcome back, how the hell have you been?? good to see you! :)

^ damn Frieds, sorry - good vibes her way from me too

^thanks lukku :):)

Frieda, I hope you two can pull through. Good vibes coming your way from here.

and here.... always
((when my mother died i was holding her head in my hands thanks be unto whoever positioned her hospital bed in the middle of the room to allow more peole to fit into the room (and perhaps to me taking a 3 day course in craniosacral therapy thus giving me the confidence and natural urge to do it)
(this took place at her house not the hospital)
to this day it feels like god orchestrated the whole thing
the truth is we were never really very close
as mothers and daughters go

"the truth is we were never really very close" >>>>UNTIL THEN AND NOW :)

Aw Frieds :( :(
Best wishes for you both

Oh my, sorry to hear :(

Sending her & you all good vibes!!

Give her all confidence, positivity and love you have. This helped my grandpa (he had also an operation and radiation therapy and it worked out 100%, every test since then shows zero cancer cells, actually he looks and feels better than for a long time before that all!), the worries my grandma and me had we kept between us, for the sick person is scared enough.

thanks everybody for the support :):)

it's still kind of weird.. i really don't know what to expect.. i have plenty of TLC but she doesn't want it, she won't accept it yet. hopefully that'll come soon.

thanks again :)

sorry to hear Frieda, best wishes to you both!

*sending good thoughts* :)

Yes, sorry to have been missing this discussion. It's so lovely that you want to care for her. Maybe she will let you after a while, when she realizes it might make you and her both feel better.

Both my parents have had serious illnesses over the years, and it's always hard. Take good care of yourself.

^ That's right. Put your own oxygen mask on first. You can't help others if you can't breathe.

I love Edge

Oh, I forgot to remind yous people but it was Towel Day today - I carried mine around all day, it was multicoloured and a good conversation starter.